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the neutral zone


vol.5 issue 3
4.05

 

 

 

Content

News and Updates

   including a special welcome

   to our new volunteers

Mediation Lessons
Volunteer of the Month: Kim Deaton

Website Progress
Legal Language

Joining Community Shares

CMC and UTK cooperation

Our Mediation Community

 

 

News and Updates:

Welcome to our New Mediators, Spring Class 2005

      Some of you CMC seasoned mediators will soon have the opportunity to mediate with our new mediators who were trained in our Spring 2005, class.  They are a wonderful group.  Seek out these mediators in upcoming social and training gatherings (Yes, we will be hosting social events upcoming, probably in the summer, in conjunction with TVMA!):

Gennie Bachman (a former case manager for a DCS family services contractor); Pam Brown (a counselor new to Knoxville); Jen Comisky (a UT Law student who works at Parent Place); Stephanie Day (small business commerical loan manager and liquidator, former mediator in the Chicago area); Wanda Donnelly (an attorney with LAET, originally from Illinois); Pat Fain (a retired attorney from Georgia who sits on numerous state boards, including serving as Chair on Human Rights Committee for People with Mental Retardation); Renee Grey (an HR consultant from TVA); Adam Hogan (new to Knoxville, a political science graduate and local store manager); June Leuthold (Frank's wife, who has observed his Rule 31 mediations, also a mother and grandmother, active in local community and political organizations); Janet McMullen (mother and wholesale sales manager for her own company); Nancy Onks (former teacher, school attendance supervisor who started truancy board); Paul Rajkowski (a Rule 31 trained mediator, Jean Munroe's husband and cook extraordinaire); Genevieve Ritchie (graduate student and teaching/research assistant at UTK's Dept of Anthropology); Amber Romero (mother and volunteer at Tribe One); Cathy Sellers (our newest VISTA from Texas); and Richie Ward (our new webhost and webmaster!).

I know, I know, they are SO good! Just the right additions to our CMC Volunteer Family. 

CMC Board Meeting: 

Thursday, May 19, 6-8pm, Juvenile Court Lobby 

TVMA Dates:
Tuesday, April 19th 

Carl Pierce, Professor of Law, UT Law School

6:30pm-7:00pm, Social time w/refreshments

7:00pm- 8:00pm, Program, "Mediation Ethics".  (CLE & CME available)

Location:  6th Floor, Candy Factory, World's Fair Park.

Mediation Links:
For A Change: www.forachange.co.uk/index.php, a UK published magazine, especially a back issue from 1996 for an article on Quakerism's impact on Mediation in the US, www.forachange.co.uk/index.php?stoid=18

Mediation Book Recommendations:
The Mediator's Hanbook, by Beer, Steiff, Friends Conflict Resolution Program, New Society Publishers; 3rd Rev edition (May 1, 1997)

CMC encourages you to use local booksellers, public libraries, used booksellers, and recycled books, as well as online sellers. 

Remember April is Sexual Assault Awareness Month!

National Sexual Violence Resource Center www.nsvrc.org/

CDC's National Center for Injury Prevention & Control www.cdc.gov/ncipc/dvp/saam.htm

Large Thank Yous to all who came out and supported CMC and YVMA at the Mediation Day Luncheon and Peer MediationFest on April 8! 

A special thanks to all our wonderful speakers:  General Randy Nichols, Judge Chuck Cerney, Mary Rose Zingale, Esq., and Jay Banks! 

We appreciate the help of our volunteer VISTAs who worked to put on the MediationFest for area middle and high schoolers:  Sarah Krivenki, Lesley Rohrer, and Cathy Sellers.  (We also recognize Richie Ward and Devon Sellers as enthusiastic and honorary VISTAs!) 
 
 

 

Mediation Lessons

by Jackie Kittrell, Esq., Associate Director, CMC


The case of Ledbetter v. Ledbetter, out of Anderson County, posted 4/4/05, reflects the most recent thinking on divorce mediation agreements by our Tennessee Supreme Court.

The husband and wife mediated a divorce agreement but did not sign it, or even reduce it to writing---all oral, with the only record an audiotape made by the mediator.  Before their hearing where it was expected that the court would approve the agreement, the husband repudiated the terms.  The wife attempted to hold him to his oral agreement, but the trial court held she could not do so, that an oral agreement reached by parties to mediation was not binding and enforceable against the parties before approval by a court.  The Tennessee Supreme Court agreed with the trial court, and held that the oral mediated agreement was not a substitute for an order and not an enforceable agreement .

As seasoned CMC-trained mediator, you might be asking, "What in the heck happened?  Why wasn't this agreement written down?"  Here's the rest of the story:  A Rule 31 mediator was in charge, and both husband and wife were represented by counsel.  The mediator explained to the parties ahead of time that if they reached an agreement, he would prepare a summary of it, and that written summary would document their agreement.  The parties mediated and reached agreement on all matters.  The hour was late, and so the parties were not able to  immediately go into court and present their agreement to the judge for an entry of judgment.  Instead, the mediator dictated and audiotaped the terms of the agreement while the parties and their attorneys listened.  Everyone approved the agreement as dictated.  Before the mediator and counsel could file a report to the Clerk and Master (which had to be done within 72 hours of the mediation), the husband repudiated the agreement.

The wife argued that the dictated tape of the agreement was evidence of a real agreement and was enforceable against the husband.  The wife was making two arguments:  one, that an oral mediated agreement was just as good as a court order, and two, that an oral mediated agreement could be enforced by the court as it would an oral contract. 

In response to wife's argument #1, the trial court cited to Harbour v. Brown for Ulrich,732 S.W.2d 598 (Tenn. 1987), which held that once an oral agreement is announced or stipulated to in open court, the judge can enforce it as a consent judgment, regardless of whether a party repudiates after the announcement but before judgment is entered.  The Ledbetter court specifically held that a Rule 31 mediation session is NOT a court proceeding which would satisfy the requirements of Harbour.

As for argument #2, that an oral mediated agreement is a contract, the court held that the oral statements made in a mediation would not be allowed to be admitted under Rule 31 Tenn. R. Sup. Ct. 31(7).  The court also looked to Rule 31, section 10(d) which requires consent of parties before disclosing information obtained in mediation.  Also the Tennessee Rules of Evidence 408 forbid disclosures to the court in civil matters concerning any conduct or statement made during a compromise negotiation or settlement meeting, including the fact that there was such a meeting.

I think we at CMC would collectively say, "What part of ALWAYS WRITE IT DOWN AND GET IT SIGNED BEFORE LEAVING THE ROOM do you not understand?"

The opinion is available for download on the Administrative Offices of the Court (AOC) website, www.tsc.state.tn.us/opinions/tsc/Sc2qtr2005.htm  Thanks to the Tennessee Bar Association Dispute Resolution Section for the information. www.tba.org/med-dir/index.html

If any of our mediators have any questions about Rule 31, please call CMC and we can direct you to the answers. If anyone is a Rule 31 mediator and would like to be on the CMC referral list, please ask us!   594-1879.
 


Volunteer of the Month: Kim Deaton
 

Kim Deaton joined CMC in the Spring 2003.  She easily applied  her education and talents as a counselor to the CMC co-mediation model. Those who have mediated with her have praised her positive, reflective and constructive style.  Besides being good Kim has continuously made herself available to mediate in the afternoons and evenings.  Kim is another CMC mediator that each of us should try to paired with to enhance our skills.  CMC is grateful and fortunate to have Kim in our family. 

 

“Since in order to speak, one must first listen, learn to speak by listening.”
 

COMING SOON! 
Tell us what you would like to see in the Neutral Zone...Maybe an advice column--Ask Miss Mediation?  A Monthly Mediation Meditation? Maybe a column by one of our illustrious mediators?  Maybe a monthly manifesto by Bob Swan?  A cartoon?  Photos? A birthday list?  Let us know, and we'll do our best to provide.  After all, no ink or paper involved in sending this out and reading it as an online email  ;^)

 

Website progress

Our newly designed website is closer to being online---we expect it to be ready in the next month.  CMC staff will be seeking input from our volunteers about the content, so that the website can be helpful to you.  We also want pictures of everyone, along with a short bio.  Because of our new web hosting arrangement, every volunteer could have his or her own web page! 

We anticipate some interactive features, such as a "volunteers only" password accessed calendar for uploading availability and feedback; a listserv for discussions and questions; and even a chatroom for our peer mediators (or any adult mediators who know how to do online chatting...).  The web address will continue to be www.2mediate.org 

Our new staff email addresses:

John Doggette:  jdoggette@2mediate.org
Jackie Kittrell:  jkittrell@2mediate.org
Sharon Upshaw:
supshaw@2mediate.org
Sarah Krivenki: skrivenki@2mediate.org
Lesley Rohrer:
lrohrer@2mediate.org

Cathy Sellers: csellers@2mediate.org
 

 

Legal Language


By Don K. Ferguson
(CMC volunteer mediator in Knox County General Sessions Court and author of the "Grammar Gremlins" column that appears in The Knoxville News-Sentinel every Sunday.)


Quash

To annul; to make void (as a writ or indictment); to put an end to (as legal proceedings). In American English, a "motion to quash" is usually a motion to nullify a writ or subpoena. -- A Dictionary of Modern Legal Usage

 

 

Big News~CMC is a new member of Community Shares!
That's right!  We are now an Associate Member of Community Shares, a federation of 48+ Tennessee based community groups who have joined together to raise money cooperatively for their programs.  Check out their website at http://www.korrnet.org/cshares/index.html.

Being an associate member means that we can ask Friends of CMC at certain workplaces to give to CMC by specifically designating us on payroll deduction forms at work.  Besides CFC (Combined Federal Campaign), Knox County Schools, Knox County Government, University of Tennessee, St. Mary's Health Systems, Vanderbilt University, and all of the Board of Regents Schools, you can view the whole list of workplace giving campaigns which include Community Shares at http://www.korrnet.org/cshares/at_work.html

We would love to hear from volunteers who would like to help us fulfill our membership obligations with Community Shares---attending board meetings and helping with various group activities with other member groups, including helping with "events" such as Mardi Gras, Brewers Jam, and the Circle of Change Award Banquet.  Please call and inquire about how to begin helping us with this exciting new networking and fundraising opportunity.

The Circle of Change Awards Celebration Dinner is June 11 at the Knoxville Expo Center on Clinton Hwy at Merchants Rd.

A fellow Community Shares Member is the Humane Society of Tennessee Valley which will host the 11th  Annual Bark in the Park on April 23 at the Chilhowie Park Fairgrounds!

http://www.humanesocietytennessee.com/barkinfo05.html

 

 

CMC is Cooperating with University of Tennessee Graduate School on Participant Survey.  (Look for the survey sheets (voluntary for all mediation session participants) at your mediation tables at Juvenile Court Annex.  CMC did not design the survey and will not be involved in data analysis, but is offering the opportunity to participate in this academically-motivated survey, which you can view online.)


From the researcher:
Hello! My name is Andy Tollison and I am a 2nd year Master's student at the University of Tennessee, Knoxville. I am in the process of gathering data for my thesis. The topic of my thesis is "Mediator Characteristics in Relation to Participant Satisfaction." I have put my survey online and would greatly appreciate your assistance in getting them filled out. If you or anyone you know has completed mediation, whether it be for training or any other issue (divorce, small claims, family, etc.), would you please fill out the survey or forward it off. The online address is:
http://surveys.utk.edu/atolliso/index.htm..

 


“Our Mediation Community”

In 2005, “Our Mediation Community” will air Mondays at 11:30am and Wednesdays at 9:00pm. The program features guests who help to promote peace in our community. Please check in every week on the CTV channel (Channel 12 on Comcast Cable or check schedules week by week at: www.communityknox.org/CTV_daily.htm